Be the Magician: Unleash 'YOU' and Shape Your Destiny!

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Embrace The Magician In You

Hello, lovers, and welcome back! As your trusty Relationship Consultant, I've got some spicy intel for you today! Let's dive into the world of manifesting your desires, shall we?

The Magical YOU

I had a eureka moment during one of my morning meditations (yes, even the Relationship Consultant meditates!). I stumbled upon a magical word that ties all your goals together, breathes life into ideas, and shapes the formless into form. It’s as exciting as finding the last piece of your favorite chocolate cake in the fridge. The word, my dears, is YOU. Yes, the magic is in YOU!

Building Blocks To Belief

In the alleys of my neighborhood, we call this process 'building.' You start with a little idea, and you stack up details until you've got yourself a skyscraper. It's like creating a magnificent love potion, one ingredient at a time.

Let's play a game, "Make YOU Believe." Picture yourself as a child, lost in the world of make-believe, where everything you imagined was real. The trick is to make YOU believe in the reality of your imagination. If YOU believe it, then voila, it’s as real as the scent of your lover's perfume on your pillow!

The Pretend-Tend Game

The action of belief is believing - pretty straightforward, isn’t it? This belief acts as your magic wand, transforming your imagination into reality. Curious to know how you forge this magic wand? By pretending, my love. I kid you not!

Pretend comes from the root word 'tend,' meaning to frequently behave in a particular way. So, what we’re doing here is ‘Pre-YOU-tend Make-YOU-Believe’. Essentially, regularly behave in a way that makes YOU believe, thereby creating trust and confidence in your imagined reality. Just like how you pretend to enjoy your partner's atrocious cooking until it oddly starts to taste good.

Napoleon Hill's Sexy Secret

Napoleon Hill, the sly old fox, was onto this when he said, “If YOU can conceive and believe YOU can achieve.” Conceiving an idea is playing 'Make-YOU-Believe.' And I'm typing this on a laptop because someone played the game. I'm lounging on a couch because someone played the game. You're reading this blog because, well, I played the game. YOU are the critical piece that ties it all together.

Your Pretend Phone Call

Now, here’s my secret sauce: Pretend to be who you want to be 100% of the time. When you’re called to be that person, pick up the phone! By doing this, you create belief and pave the way for you to step into the reality of who you want to be.

Picture this: You're pretending to be a Swagger Coach. Everyone in the office starts calling you Swagger Coach. But when a co-worker shows up looking like he dressed in the dark, you step in with some solid fashion advice. Before you know it, you've become the office fashion icon, and everyone believes in the Swagger Coach!

If you yearn to be the CEO, pretendto be a CEO 100% of the time. When you're asked to answer a CEO-type question, do it with confidence. Soon enough, the company will be eyeing you for a promotion. Remember, my darlings, luck is the sweet spot where preparation meets opportunity!

The Happy Selfish Manifestor

Remember to be unabashedly selfish in this process. Yes, you heard me right! After all, by basking in your happiness, you gift others a glimpse of their potential. If you can’t see your success, darling, change your vantage point. Perhaps it’s time to put on those love-tinted glasses, don't you think?

Key Points:

  1. The magical YOU is the key to manifesting your desires.
  2. The process of building beliefs starts with pretending and leads to reality.
  3. Always be prepared to step into the role you aspire to be.
  4. Being selfish in your pursuit of happiness can inspire others.