Are you ready to delve deep into the intricate labyrinth of commitment and uncover what's truly behind those non-committal actions? Strap on your emotional armors, ladies. It's going to be a bumpy ride!
Let's start by addressing a burning question – do you really want him to commit? Now, be honest with yourself. Because if you do, you need to realize that the emotional gun he's holding might just be loaded with silver bullets. Are you controlling the bullets while letting him hold the trigger? Think about it.
Some men lack the understanding of motivation due to their upbringing and resort to tough love. You don't like being called fat. He knows it, yet he keeps on doing it. He even watches you cry. But still, you stay... This screams a lack of confidence or some deep-rooted issue that makes you comfortable in such a situation.
Growing up with a father who did not flirt with you can make you feel self-conscious. This could leave you without the confidence to recognize when a man truly loves you, or even how to love him back. Remember, your self-worth isn't defined by anyone else. You are your own beacon of light!
It's high time to recognize your inner charisma. Demand respect and the treatment you deserve. Once you realize your true inner glow, you'll be on the right path to finding the right man.
Ask yourself, "Why should he commit?" If you truly believe in your worth, you wouldn't fear asking him. If he doesn't respond positively, remember that you deserve better.
Commitment doesn't have to come with a title. The power lies in communication. A title gives you some claim to the other person, but it doesn't necessarily denote commitment.
The emotional balance in a relationship should be equal. We, as men, want to be the buyer, but that doesn't mean we own you. If you hold the emotional trigger, we're both equal players.