You may not even understand transmutation let alone the transmutation of sex.
There you are sitting on the couch contemplating relationship suicide or to watch porn. You have involuntarily abstained from sexual intimacy with your wife.
You're on your favorite couch. Legs up on the ottoman. The t.v. is on the news channel but that's not what you're seeing.
You're remembering that one time when you came home from work stressed out.
Suffering from the tension of spreadsheets, I will get that right over to you, and meetings for meetings about meetings that prep you for meetings.
She came downstairs in your favorite lingerie, you know the one she wore when she was role-playing as your mistress of sexual domination and walked right over to you started slowly, sensually, kissing on your neck then down the rest of your body.
She straddled you and began riding your excitement like its sophomore year on spring break after a night of tequila sunrises and corona's.
Where had she gone?
Had she died?
No, she's just "tired".
I learned this concept through my reading of Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich. The meaning of the word "transmute" is, in simple language, "the changing, or transferring of one element, or form of energy, into another." To further define it, its the switching of the mind from thoughts of physical expression, to thoughts of some other nature.
You know when men get to be in their fifty's they start spending a ton of time in the garage working on cars. They are extremely amped to cut the grass, wash the cars, and build stuff.
Typical mid-life crisis right.
Well, they might not realize what's happening. They have so much energy because they are no longer thinking about or engaging in sex so they come up with something else to occupy their time or target their energy.
That's a redirection of sex energies.
What you will notice is their new level of concentration and focus that leads to above average achievement levels.
When your wife is not letting you release your sexual energy, and it can be frustrating, but relationship suicide is not the way.
Instead, focus all that extra energy to achieve a goal that you may have been in the back of your mind. If you focus your energy on that idea instead of releasing the sexual energy you will be able to achieve more!
Stop focusing on the physical.